I was invited to their inner sanctum, a darkened dance studio with poles and lush fabric cascading down from the ceiling. I sat on a leather couch, An Untamed State lying in my lap. For two hours, I watched as a group of women twisted and flexed their bodies to pop and trap, swung their figures to melody and bass. I observed women opening and closing their palms, clap clap. Lifting each other up, there was no collapse.
I spied the sinewy, willowy, muscled, curvy Beautiful slick with sweat move in and out of time. And then my eyes burned and there were tears edging its way out of the corners of my eyes and gliding down my cheeks.
And it wasn’t about them. I think this had been coming on for a while, the tide coming in. I felt it coming when I walked out of my sister’s house and kept moving for an hour drowning the world out, even the wind whistling through the trees. And then when I held my nephew’s basketball in my hands, palms covering the leather and I raised my arms and shot over and over again.
I missed doing something just for me and my body knew it before I did. The ache went deep and as those things tend to do, it arrived on the surface.
I welcome anything else my body has to tell me as I continue on this journey.